Happy Fuckin Memorial day weekend all. I’m a bit pissed off. My second ex wife that left me last year called me a couple weeks ago. I was pretty happy/excited to hear from her since I’m still madly in love with her. So then we made plans for tonight. I told her I’d make a special dinner (she said that she usually has no money for food) so when I got there, we went shopping for here favorite meal (I’m a great cook/chef and she knows it). So while I’m at her place cooking the dinner, I’m also fixing her computer, you know, basic maintenance. Anyway, she hinted all week that we would spend the night together, so I was more than willing to spend the money on the food and such. I also bought some other things for her that she needed for her place. It was a no brainer cause I really just wanted to spend the night with her (and I wasn’t looking for sex) just companionship. Well, dinner was great and afterwards as I was finishing up some of the maintenece software downloads and setup, an IM window popped up from some dude named Chris. She ran over and put her hand up to the monitor before I could read it. And then she told me I had to leave. So I left. She told me he was just a friend. HAHAHAHA. Right, I’m stupid. Actually I am stupid to try to get involved with her again. Now I’m really burning Mad pissed off. Fuck all you women (and I’m not talking to you women here at custo) Fuck it, Im just a fuckin dumb ass. I’m fuckin mad right now! Fuck it!!
From my female perspective, I can tell you she knows exactly how you feel about her, and she doesn't mind to use that to her own benefit (I can tell you, we, women know how to do that). Be intelligent adn just ignore it. Or I may be just wrong, since we know only your angry side of the story.
-----------/ this isn't a fucking soap opera, (liquidred)
*gives MaddDadd a plate of cookies* sucks that she's so shallow that she'd use you like that. be strong and demand her to be honest with you if she tries something like that again. just remember: there ARE better women out there and i wish you all the luck in finding one. ;)
and you didn't load a fucking trojan on her box, you loser. even i do that to my girlfriends, as soon as you get the chance so you can fuck them up when they go online and check they're not just serving you up like a set of ten pins to be whacked back down a month later, did you get the contact addy from "chris" cause i'm sure you could fake being her and tell him to fuck off. or you could be mature and forget her before burning down her house and jacking her car ... "there are many fish in the sea just not enough flies. it sucks being a spider." - michael visser
Because she covered the monitor so he couldn't see what 'he' said. Girls do that all the time... Say that I got an SMS message on my phone, the girl would ask to see it and would go real far in order to see it, but when she got a message (i never ask to see it anyway,cos i aint that kinda guy) and i asked if i could see, she'd say no. I don't know what the big deal is with that anyhow, unless they have something to hide (which is normally the case). I fell for you MaddDadd, don't let her get you down too much, as Fenris said .. there's someone else out there.
_______________ "To announce that there must be no criticism of the president, or that we are to stand by the president right or wrong, is not only unpatriotic and servile, but is morally treasonable to the American public." ---Theodore Roosevelt
instead of looking at it negatively imagine this.. what if she loves you enough to save you from a message that would hurt somebody's feelings? (or maybe shes scared youll kick the guys ass). but then again, if that was the case i suppose she wouldnt have asked you to leave, but perhaps there was another reason.
Not all women are like this MaddDadd, i think you just haven't found the right one. But great women are everywhere, you'll find her. Yes you were used, but i was once used by guys too, and what i've learned from all of this is that if he uses me once, he's going to use me again, and that alone breaches your trust and gives you a reason to move on. It's not worth it to linger on someone who isn't worth your time, and now that you realize that she is just using you, you have every reason to forget about her and just get on with your life. She doesn't deserve you, you know this, so why bother giving her the satisfaction of your anger when she prolly isn't even worth that?
----- 'Allez Enfer'- to those who deserve it. Don't shoot the messenger, for the universe works in mysterious ways...
If she hinted to you that she wanted to spend the night together chances are she probably did. Who's to say that the IM messenger is'nt a current love interest of hers, and she was feeling really guilty about having you there?
If you love this women the way you say you do, then any time spent with her should make you happy.
I cant believe I missed all this...maybe its because I was getting laid with my ex girlfriend of 4 years, for the last 3 days. not boasting or anything, i hope you work out your problems man. And one thing you said that I really like "Fuck all you women (and I’m not talking to you women here at custo) Fuck it" whoa man! thats like the shit right there!. ;) ______________.. syxx
all i can say to finish this up is the following "would you have gone to her place anyway if you knew she might have been involved with someone else, if so why'd you leave?"
At first i wanted to reply as soon as i can. But now. I think i shouldn´t at all.
For me, an eighteen year old i cannot imagine to feel so much love for a person to really loose my mind. Oh hey... it´s hard to find any word or anything to give you a helping hand.
Is there any chance that she was being honest? It sounds to me like she really didn't want to offend you in any way, and really didn't want you to think she was in any way with this Chris fellow. I understand that's pretty far-fetched (an honest and straightforward woman) but it might be possible.
i'm standing here at 18 years old.. even though i come off as a complete jackass sometimes, i'm probably a "man" beyond my years.. i've been hurt tremendously by girls. the keyword of that sentence being, of course, "girls". i've never received any better advice about girls than the advice i got from colossus.. he really helped me out when things were bad. i'll never love another woman for a long time. a lot of my friends and, of course myself, have this same problem : we care so much and our girlfriend/ex-girlfriends care so little. i've always been taught by society guys were just ignornant pricks without any feelings. until i actually got of age and loved for myself. ok this post is going no where. i'm just said. and i'm on like day 3 of not talking to her.. :\
chicks use guys all the time... sucks man, but ya, if you really like her, any time spent with her should be good time... I think you should just be honest with her and if you seriously like this woman or whatever, ask her who the hell this chris dude is...do it in a nice way so she doesnt get offeneded or whatever, just tell her what ya think, that you like her and stuff, cause maybe she wasnt sure what you wanted... can't hurt to ask who this chris fellow was...
and if she just gets all upset and stuff, I am sorry to say I dont think it was going to work anyways... I've been cheated on and stuff, it sucks.. and I am still kinda hung up on one of my ex's...but you can get over that shit... but make sure ya ask her whats up, so you dont pass something off as being a problem if it really shouldnt be...
My husband knows where you are coming from on that. if you need someone to talk to about that feel free to email him raphael_solo@ yahoo.com he is a guy just like you and i am a dope and my hubby and i worked things out and are now happlily back together.
