If you want friends here, start commenting on ppls work, contributing to forum threads, and maybe try your hand at skinning/modding/wallpapers. If none of that sounds appealing to you, you may want to find another site with content more interesting to you.
If you're joking, then I just answered a silly question with a serious answer... which I can't help but find amusing in itself. >XD If you aren't joking and wondering why I think this is funny, well, most of the time threads like this are someone joking around. Others will probably laugh too, but don't take it the wrong way.
If you have any questions about the site itself, let me know.
in all honesty, theres alotta cool people on here from all over the globe, so you shouldnt have trouble finding a friendly chat. however, this is a desktop customizing website, so if you've already exhausted myspace and the like, be prepared for a little backlash.