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Personal Attacks

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Max says:

Please note that personal attacks on this site are no longer tolerated. All such comments will be logged, deleted. If it occurs again further action will occur.

The site is not a playground for people to mistreat each other and behave like animals. It is for all to enjoy without being called names.

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06:22 pm, Monday, February 20, 2006 (2 years ago)
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staticuxo says:

arsh.

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06:26 pm (2 years ago)
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split says:

super harsh.

06:27 pm (2 years ago)
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curre says:

lets go play on the monkey bars split!

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06:28 pm (2 years ago)
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fuckoffmax says:

You're a little shit you know that, why dont you just go and die already. No one likes you or wants you on this site. If you werent here there would be no controversy so fuck off ok? Step down as admin and let somone who can do the job right do it. You're just a punk ass getting your kicks because you're an admin, abusing your power on a site because you have no power in your real life. Go back to eating, you little piggy.

06:28 pm (2 years ago)
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staticuxo says:

wtf, cuure!
i'm not invited to play on the monkey bars?

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06:31 pm (2 years ago)
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curre says:

Comment posted by: fuckoffmax (*.hsd1.mi.comcast.net) = logged.

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06:32 pm (2 years ago)
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bijou says:

awww....i was expecting your profile to have somethintg funny in it :(

06:33 pm (2 years ago)
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akka says:

with all due respect, there's a difference between moderating uninvoked personal attacks, and an abusive administrator with personal vendettas. really, just a "let's cool it, guys" would have been so much more effective than moderating 10+ comments and banning someone... and i think it's safe to say that the majority of the community agrees.

06:35 pm (2 years ago)
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split says:

/me agrees

06:36 pm (2 years ago)
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bijou says:

agreed

06:37 pm (2 years ago)
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staticuxo says:

/me agrees more than split does.

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06:38 pm (2 years ago)
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curre says:

/me agrees more that static, as well as more than split.

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06:39 pm (2 years ago)
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fuckoffmax says:

Max, i swear to God. You better leave the community alone. Without us you would have nothing.

06:39 pm (2 years ago)
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staticuxo says:

ROFL

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06:42 pm (2 years ago)
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curre says:

LOLLLLL

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06:43 pm (2 years ago)
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split says:

who would make something like that *snicker*, thats just wrong.... bwahaha.

06:45 pm (2 years ago)
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Max says:

All well to do communities have rules against personal attacks and trollish behaviour, if you feel that the admins moderating personal attacks is too harsh for you then perhaps you need to find another site to take that type of behaviour to.

The community and admins are sick of it, We get violation reports on it all the time. This is not the community for you if thats the way you want to behave, Im sorry but moderation is in order.

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06:45 pm (2 years ago)
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VictorC says:

Heh. The community.

You are a joke.

06:48 pm (2 years ago)
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spr33 says:

Who are you guys to be saying all of this?

'Community', what community? This place is a playground for the uneducated and disrespectful.

I'll leave it at that, no point in saying anything else as it'd be pointless as you'll be finding it difficult to be read it.

06:50 pm (2 years ago)
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curre says:

looks like banning capx solved everything! thanks max!

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06:50 pm (2 years ago)
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split says:

there are jokes a'plenty to be had here, as of late.

06:50 pm (2 years ago)
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fuckoffmax says:

If anyone acts like a fool it's you. Let your power get to your head, you fucking tool. Hide behind the internet. It's not too harsh for me, and how dare you even suggest that you punk bitch. Out of all my time on this site, you're the only one i've ever thought to insult because of the way you act. I think you should be the one to find a new site and i hope you fucking rot in hell there.

Not only is moderation in order but so is a revolution against your bitch ass, and it will come, hard. In the ass, Prison style, like you've become use to.

06:50 pm (2 years ago)
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j3_concepts says:

I think if your asking Max to put all this behind him, then it' would be expected of you guys as well.
I'm not going to take sides, those who know me know my views on this, but really you guys are making it alot worse. Please give this site it's dignity back.
This site use to be a great "community", we all visited here to see the newest latest trends in design and customizing, hell customize.org is where I got my start.
Now everytime I turn around there is so much tension and hatred.
You guys (admins and users) are eventually going to lead to the destruction of this "community", slowly this is already taking place.


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06:50 pm (2 years ago)
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j3_concepts says:

No one is innocent, it's a self-destructive group effort at this point.

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06:52 pm (2 years ago)
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BiosysHY says:

This is like the novel "The Outsiders" only:

Nuance vs Max

06:53 pm (2 years ago)
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fuckoffmax says:

I'm done, only because i respect j3 and the rest of this community.

06:53 pm (2 years ago)
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staticuxo says:

good man, j3. that was well said, too.

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06:54 pm (2 years ago)
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BiosysHY says:

my bad. not nuance.

06:57 pm (2 years ago)
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split says:

nuance as an establishment has nothing to do with this, this is a complete personal opinion act.

06:58 pm (2 years ago)
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curre says:

http://www.gypsyspacemuffin.com/junk/somanyquestionssolittle
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06:59 pm (2 years ago)
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kevinlau7 says:

why can't we all be a happy community..?

kevin

07:07 pm (2 years ago)
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ambulance says:

okay so does max now delete posts that shows 'fuckoffmax' being a bigger man? look in his profile and his last post was " I'm done, only because i respect j3 and the rest of this community." can someone please tell me WHY this was deleted but not the others? this is ridiculous.

07:24 pm (2 years ago)
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ambulance says:

okay ignore that post up tharrrrr ^^

07:25 pm (2 years ago)
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ambulance says:

this is going to fast for me :S

07:26 pm (2 years ago)
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xcal says:

Hmm... Looks like I missed some sort of drama. That'll teach me to not be online most of the day.

07:49 pm (2 years ago)
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xcal says:

Holy crap... "f*ckoffmax" and me have the same *.hsd1.mi.comcast.net.

07:50 pm (2 years ago)
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Static- says:

well well more drama started by a unneeded post .. if im not wrong rules apply to everyone .. lets just end it here.

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07:55 pm (2 years ago)
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jay_dee says:

Hay guys it's only the internet lolz

07:59 pm (2 years ago)
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BiosysHY says:

I think this site should be run by the community and not 4 people. 3 of the 4 are from Visionleague and of course they are going to be very biased about the rankings and such. I think LightLamp should re-evaluate the mods here. I am not pointing fingers but I am sure more than 3/4 of the active members here do not agree with what Max has done.

08:15 pm (2 years ago)
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Max says:

Feel free to send a personal PM to Lamplighter you can also vote in the Polls at the link below.

http://www.customize.org/polls/606

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08:29 pm (2 years ago)
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lamplighter doesnt choose the admins. think about it. have you ever seen a post made by him here? does he interact with the community at all? no. This isnt a personal attack on lamp at all, but its the truth. its his site and he can handle however he wants, but the fact is other staff members message lamp and say "hey could you add soandso to the staff for ranking/news/whatever" and after about a week or so it might be done. That is how I got j3 and heylove added to staff a while back.

Im 100% sure this is how dios and nylons were added to staff. The staff dwindled down to just Max and wynton, so Max chose them and messaged lamp about it. Im not saying there is anything wrong with this, Im only saying this is how its done.

There seems to be too much confusion on how things work around here.


(let me clarify, this is not an attack on anyone. I am only presenting my viewpoint as a former staff member)

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09:04 pm (2 years ago)
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suffocate says:

all we are saying is give peace a chance

09:10 pm (2 years ago)
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Arznek says:

FF speaks the truth. It's not a coincidence or a mystery why all but 3 of the staff quit at the same time. Maybe no one noticed what was happening at the time because there wasn't a notice to anyone.

Either way stop being smacktards and live with the situation. You're not going to change a damn thing.

Arznek
Member again! wee!

09:21 pm (2 years ago)
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I guess I missed out on the drama as well. I say, stick to what you like. If you don't like someones comments, fine. Ignore them. If you don't like a staff ranking, ignore them. Hell, I disagree with some rankings and some comments, but that's hardly a reason to act so rashly. I really have no idea what went on here lately, but as far as I can tell Max banned someone, again. It seems like he will continue to do so at his own disgression. So no amount of arguing about it will change anything. Do what I do, submit your work, laugh at the drama, and go about your business.

"Treat politics as you would a lark; don't take things too seriously, and you will always be at ease."
- Iron Monkey

09:56 pm (2 years ago)
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I didn't even have to do anything this time. Hey Max, everything around here looks great. haha

10:34 pm (2 years ago)
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-carnage- says:

I'm just curious...what exactly happened? I know someone got banned for saying something or the other...I'm just wondering who/why

10:43 pm (2 years ago)
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Cap was like "fuck you man" and max was like "No fuck you" and then cap was all like "whatever bitch" and then max was like "totally pwnnneedd!111! banned!!!!111haha". Then we all held hands and played crack the whip.

10:50 pm (2 years ago)
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-carnage- says:

ah...gotcha

11:11 pm (2 years ago)
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-carnage- says:

You all do realize there is nobody to blame for this...Max was doing his job as everyone else did theirs as members of the cust community.

I'm not taking sides before anyone puts words in my mouth.

11:14 pm (2 years ago)
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-carnage- says:

everyone else did theirs as members of the cust community.

Should have clarified...by that I mean that everyone was submitting their own ideas and feelings about the situation at hand.

11:16 pm (2 years ago)
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tehl3x says:

I think enough users here feel "at home" enough to say whatever they want whenever they want, because their reputation backs them up as whatever kind of artists they are. Newcomers are generally treated, well, like complete shit from what I've seen, and people that submit anything other than in-fashion customizations are dealt with like inferiors just because they're not going along with whatever is in all the screenshots.

The community at customize has always been closed minded when it comes to new users, or new users in general. How many posts have you seen with the sarcastic "justfuckinggoogleit" link? So many of the forum posts on this website develop into trolling or insults that have no basis other than reputation.

Other sites that have thriving communities (DA, Deskmod when it was around, or even Neowin) don't shoot down people that ask a "stupid" question instantly, just because they think they're the top dog on their favorite website. These are the kinds of things I think need to be moderated, since I don't see the point in completely unequal treatment between new users, veteran users, or anything inbetween. The community here is gererally (and mostly...) unfriendly. I'm all for moderation on personal attacks, regardless of how many "at home" folks feel otherwise.

11:16 pm (2 years ago)
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merkurixx says:

yeah bud you sure nailed it. you totally got it all figured out, professor. way to go mr. anthropology. you're a regular jane goodall, among us filthy degenerate apes here.

11:29 pm (2 years ago)
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Jane Goodall can suck it.

11:32 pm (2 years ago)
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jay_dee says:

He nailed it.

01:09 am (2 years ago)
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Max says:

Some of you have no idea what all this drama is about so let me provide a brief commentary on how this all started.


This issue stems from individuals thinking it is ok to disrespect others because they are unknown, ask too many "dumb questions" or not of the status quo. Time and time again personal attacks and sarcastic, aggressive comments are splattered across submissions & forum threads on this site.

Yesterday a user left a comment stating that they felt as though a screenshot submitted by a nuance group member was a ripped work, immediately following his comment, numerous personal attacks full of crude & distasteful language were made against that member. Since I stated before that personal attacks would be removed I took it upon myself to delete them.

To be fair and keep the peace, I also removed the initial comment from the user which claimed that the item was a rip as this was also responsible for sparking the attacks. Another admin removed remarks made by members which also criticized the site's admins for in thier opinion giving it a low rank. This is never an issue if the person who submits the item is an unknown or not in the status quo.

These actions did not sit well with a beligerent group of individuals who immediately began personal attacks upon me for doing my site duties. I removed those personal attacks as well as contacted each individual to let them know that what they were doing is against the rules.

The comments progressed at which point I had no choice but to silence one of those individuals. "CAPITALIZEX" has since come forth and apologized for his behaviour and in good faith his account will soon be unsilenced as he will now agree to comply with the policy against personal attacks.

There are many types of members here @ customize.org, but the 2 most distinct are members who have been here for a long time or who may be part of a clique that has been here a long time and feel it is a personal country club where they feel it is thier right to do and say whatever they want, if someone opposes them then that person immediately faces a backlash from the whole clique.

The other group of members are either new or long time visitors who browse the site to find items to customize thier desktops but dont like the behaviour they see in the submission comments or in the forum threads so after a while of constantly seeing this or being belittled for asking simple non aggressive questions they leave thinking the site is full of aggressive, mean spirited individuals and that the site administration condones the behavior.

This is not the case and the admins are united in prohibiting future situations like this. All we want is a site where everyone, even those who are not as well known to be respected and treated with dignity.

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03:41 am (2 years ago)
 
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